Serendipity

"Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love."
- Rumi


Fall, you do not disappoint!!  We didn't plan it...we meant to bike River to preschool and bike back home, but Sage said we should go to the arboretum and to me that sounded like easy entertainment for her and the little friend we gained at drop-off.  I thought we would take a lap and then head home to toys and snacks and to do lists.


But it was an absolutely breath-taking fall morning. These two played with sticks and leaves and tree berries and literally walked me through the most quiet, joyful, Slow-Down that I never knew I needed.



They played for 2 hours.  I got restless and thought of the books I should've brought and things to be done at home and work, played on my phone, texted, paced.  And f.i.n.a.l.l.y. slowed enough to sit quietly and watch and remember what it is to play with such inhibition. Their silliness and unplanned play gave me permission to just plain get simple in my brain.


Gerry, a man with two daughters and grandchildren of his own - that I learned to know at that spiritual direction day (click here) - stopped and spent some time with us. He took some of these photos, and with his quiet presence encouraged me to stay quiet and breathe in this space.


I'm so dang lucky to be living this life...tripping over myself with happy accidents like this this!  Fills me to my brim.

Dance it out, People!

Just in case you haven't already seen this.

Deb (the patient) requested a dance party before she laid down in the O.R. for a double mastectomy.


Dance it out, people!!  
Dance dance dance.  
Drop your purse or your baby or your laundry or your drink or your pen or your whatever.  
Crank up the stereo and dance it out!!!!
Dont.wait.one.second.longer.
Crank it and DANCE!

13 for 2013

When your daughter tells you she wants to dress up as an astronaut for Halloween, it might go something like this...

1.  You check yourself and notice that you're stressed out and too busy for costume making this year.

2.  Show her the cool princessy, fairy-ish rockstar costumes at walshart in hopes of convincing her to choose that instead.

3.  Check yourself and notice that your daughter said she wants to be an astronaut and realize that is the coolest thing ever and heaven help us you're trying to raise a strong woman who can do anything including fly to the moon.

4.  Check yourself before you wreck yourself, and make the dang costume!!!


5.  Make your first ever ebay purchase....an astronaut helmet for $4.99.


6.  Go to your favorite Sherwin Williams for white painters coveralls for $7.99.

7.  Send your daughter on her bike to the hardware store for red duct tape.


8.  Get out your stapler and that duct tape and work your magic.


9.  Dress up your easy-to-please other two children in walshart costumes because you gave all your energy to your astronaut daughter.


10.  Dress up as a witch because a) your closet is full of black stuff b) fake eyelashes are a tradition and c) on this one day of the year you get to let your witchy self out to play.


11.  Find some friends who will host you for dinner and wear the pink mullet you bring along.




12.  Line your kids up for a picture.


 13.  Pimp your kids for candy on one very gorgeous October night!

Halloween 2013, you were so good to us!!!!!